Triple Combo Packages!!!

Hey hey hey!!

Back in life and bouncing onto work lately!! Anyways, I have started my own photobooth business and also will venture out designing and also event planning.

One step at a time hopefully! GREAT NEWS for 2016/2017 brides to bes! I have collaborated with my dear friends from the same industry. So we have Bizkode for Videography and Nifty Degree for Photography!!

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AWESOME right…all 3 under one roof for $3,000. I paid mine much more expensive than this! So if you guys are interested, do drop us a Whatsapp for further enquiries.

We are more than willing to meet face to face to discuss further! With no Obligations.

Furthermore, Ohana & Co. which I am currently developing further understand there is always budget for every couple yet wanting to add in more fun! So we have this;

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Personalised PRICING…. you can just again email or whatsapp me, inform your needs and I will try my best to accommodate to your budget with personalisations. As a ex-bride I do understand the pain in the hole pockets so I would like to help future brides too!…

We even do photobooth for all sorts of events NOT JUST  wedding related!!

Even you need event planning or event coordinator, I am more than happy to also provide a QUOTE!!

lotsa loves from the Bride da basi!!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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The Road to Recovery

It has been almost a week since you left us… I had to stay at my mom’s place for recovery and during these few days, we were frantically searching for kakak/makcik urut. It was not easy as we had to ask around friends whom might have contacts.

Thank goodness Mak with her pasar friends, we found one who stays in Gombak and is affordable as well. She was available for urut session and that is the most important.

Having miscarriage thought me to be patient. It was as similar to giving birth just without the Baby…your body feels drained out, your tummy feels pain from the bleeding, your body felt like it was being beaten up and sore. Legs, arms, hips were too sore that I had to take 1 step at a time. Feet without socks make it sooo painful to even place a step. That was the pain that Mothers had to endure, and I had the chance to face it. Drinking Polleney or Chicken Essence was so tak sedap as well. I literally gag after the last drop hits my throat…

So despite all the motivation, I understand how miscarriages can be as depressing…People might advise to try again and bla bla bla…but no one would understand the pain physically and mentally a Mother who lost their child has to face…To go through the same confinements of a new Mother who gave birth yet again without the Child.

I don’t know I was lucky or whether I am naturally a strong willed lady, I bounced back to life a day after of grieving  but I still shun having people around me, I just hate entertaining the same questions all over again.

  1. How did it happen?
  2. How long were you into it? How did you find out?
  3. Are you ok? Are you fine?
  4. Is Akbar ok?

I dealt with grieve differently from normal humans I guessed, I don’t naturally cry over such things, I hate it…I hate showing my expressions. I bottled my emotions but at the same time I rather be alone…

The makcik urut did a good job in massaging all my stress points, pushed out my water retention, tried to place back the uterus coz its terjatoh…and gave me words of advice to prepare for the next pregnancy….

I also was recommended to eat this…

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Manjakani was proven to tighten the vagina walls and lessen vaginal discharge, good for post delivery…Well let’s see how it goes la kan…The sengkak urut is super damn painful…I am not in favour of pain and I think most of the ladies here knew I have low tolerance masih la terpekik pekik if sakit sikit.. But it is to get well so must endure la..ketap bibir tahan sakit…But at times it was soo painful I literally felt like passing out PENGSAN…it was soo excruciatingly painful…masya allah..but definitely now I felt better and badan da rase ringan…

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Amalkan la surah nie to prevent from future miscarriages. I thank loved ones whom has supported or taken care of me. Hopefully we will try to help in different ways for friends or loved ones that are in need..it is not an easy road masya allah..but I prayed that one day I will have rezeki and amanah to take care of..and for my fellow ladies to be strong…there will always be challenges but none will be difficult for any ummah-nye to endure.. Insya Allah…

When things turn unexpectedly…

A few weeks ago I had suspected that I was expecting due to a late period and my on off nauseous moments..lack of breath and so on…

But a few negative tests came about and seeing a GP with no answers led to a frustrating moment more than anything…as the GP wanted to refer me to a gastroenologist instead of a gynae!

I knew back then I was pregnant and I waited patiently to have a positive test..went about with my work and even travelled to Tokyo for a meeting…it was tough I was tired most of the time…but work is work… I took my time slowly walking or continuing my work..

Last past week, cravings got so overwhelming that I thought maybe I should just do another test. Bought Clearblue on Wednesday, tried on Thursday morning which gave me a postive sign…

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I was ecstatic…Alhamdullilah….finally lil 1 decided to show up! It was a feeling that I couldnt explain…having a kid was 1 of my dreams..I was always prepared to be one and so was Baba aka Mr.A….we have always loved kids and treated my niece as our precious….

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But I guess Allah loved the lil 1 more than anything..it must have been a special 1 too…Friday was the day it decided to leave us…

Rahmat of Friday I guess, I was at work and busy running errands and back to work..When I went to the toilet I saw that I was already bleeding…signs of panic and anxiousness just wrap my heart…messaged Ana and she said that I should not move…that day was just a tiring day..i had this dull pain on my body and my feet were aching so badly it was hard to walk…

Went back in a cab..ate dinner with husband…i felt pain come and go and I knew I was bleeding still…Baba got so worried and just decided to rush me to the hospital..My father in law was calm but I knew he was panic..I can feel that he drove the car way faster than usual…

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Doctors scanned and took my urine test..it was no longer in my system..couldnt scan for it…despite a postivie urine test…after awhile they took my blood test to determine..send me home and next day I got a call from Dr Liu…my blood test came back negative…and was concluded I had a miscarriage and it was flushed out of the system…but Im still experiencing the bleeding so the process is still ongoing…

It was raw Ya allah…when my bro in law woke up whom was dutied to take care of me…I couldnt hold it back…I just cried and lie on my bed..Baba was not around since he had to work…but I was too pained to stay strong…asked him to come back to be with me….It was an on and off moments…I redha that yes Allah took it back..but I had thoughts of was I being a bad mother coz I didnt rest as much as possible…

It was too much…Mentally I was half half…I was ok most times but back of my mind I was still healing this raw broken heart…masya allah….

Back at my moms place to recover…I pity my baba…as much as I grow through it..he is not used to me not being around him…and he is mending a broken heart too…

May we be strong for this…I love you baba…and mummi will always love you lil 1…may Allah reminds me to always remember this love….you gave me the feeling of being a mother for a few weeks..I thank you for that….insya allah prayers wont be forgotten…

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Japan Trip~ Useful Tips for Travel

  1. FOOOOOD!!

Whenever I travel, there is the issue of finding halal food in other countries which is not that easy like Malaysia, Indonesia or other SE Asia countries.

When I travel to other countries I tend to eat more seafood since no need halal la kan that one.. but it can be boring and sometimes overkilled till I cannot telan already…

One of the apps that was introduced to me when I was in Japan was this awesome food app:

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Halal Gourmet Japan is where you can find restaurants or food in Japan with selection of options like Halal sign, muslim owned, Wi-Fi connection, you can even select areas that you will be like I was in Odaiba and didn’t know of options to eat, thus I saw 1 buffet restaurant it’s not entirely halal but they serve halal meats and indication on the food labels so you wouldn’t consume pork for eg.

This app is very useful, even the Muslim Japanese uses them and Msia students whom I’ve met along the way recommended me this godsent app. However do bear in mind not all halal eateries are listed, so do walk around sometimes you may find a hidden halal gem in Japan.

Another wonderful thing about Japan is their FOOOOD HALLS! located mostly at basements of supermarkets, or shopping malls. Their food halls slalu ader sample, so if lapar – lapar can just walk around as customers and have a try, SAPE TAK SUKA try try makaaaan!! korang rugi ok! kalau da suka sedap baru belikan! Sg-reans are always KIASU, so this is definitely worth going!

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2. Travelling Ez-link in Tokyo (SUICA Card)

This is exactly like your EZ-link. It is prepaid and you can use it to tap into their different JR/Toei Lines. So if it has value you can just tap in and tap out no need buy train tickets.

The card also bole beli bende k! Like buying stuff at convenient stores or something just like our EZ -link or like vending machines ke.. So awesome and the logo is a Penquin..like happy feet so cute la! Just look out of these signs to use them;

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Senang kan, basically Japan is like Singapore but just different language and of coz sorry eh org dorang lagi berbudi bahasa..takde KBKB KNN semua takde…

Like previously we asked for directions and we asked if they spoke English. Most of them cam tak bole bual sangat la..but SOOOO BERBSAR HATI, bawak kita to the restaurant or kedai that we wanted to go eventhough they were heading to the station already and it is quite a walk! SUNGGUH BANYAK berbudi bahasa…cuba ah tanya kat SG kene stare or ignored..irrits…

Will be talking about my JAPAN work trip in the next entry which I found some interesting finds bahahahah…