112 Days Awaaay ~ Yeay Mak!! Saya da pass kursus daaaaa

Da macam sarang semak betol my wordpress..It has been tooo long I have yet to frequently update as much as I want.

Cut the bullshitting crap away, so a few weeks ago, for 2 full weekends! Pagi pagi buta, I attended the Marriage course with Mr.A.
Started from 8.30am up till 6pm, my brain was overworked and put into school system mode. We were really hesitant about this course, and it took me quite awhile to actually sign up for the course and convincing Mr. A along for this. So who did we choose after all the GREAT reviews from fellow BTBs. We opted for Suchi Success!

Headed by Mr Khair and wife, Mdm Suriati, I would say Power Couple laaa..they facilitated very very well. Topics such as communication was touched on, and of cause the feedback session of putting inputs and feedbacks about each other partners.It was frustrating and during the whole time of the course, I was communicating via whatsapp with MR.A and we have our differences as usual…klakar! tapi benar, what ever topics that was laid out sure got feedback! lols

But all is well, it literally open up my eyes to alot more of issues faced by different couples, different problems outta which is not fake, I am literally facing some situations it myself! Not me but of other couples I’ve known who are facing common issues potrayed during the class, I got really sad as well at what the society it facing but not faced with the truth.

Did you guys know?!?! Statistically, out of 4 couples, 3 would file for divorce/are divorcing!!!! Kau gila peeeee, but it is the hard truth!!! and the fact Marriage Course is not even compulsory now, it worries me more of the future generation!!!

I learn alot more of my personality apparently, without me realising I have changed over the years and tend to be a thinker and analyse situations more! So I was categorised as a perangai PISANG!! PISANG DOK! I will not admit defeat…pisang pun powderful k!

While Mr.A is perangai! ANGGUR!!! Mr Serba Boleh,OR Jack of all trades!

We are not entirely that different as a couple, ader la perangai MONYET sama-sama, but whatever differences have completed each other flaws and weaknesses as well, Insya Allah, AMIN!.

So I urged all BTBs to really consider for marriage course and this center has 1 of the better kursus which I was happily attending despite the early timing and long journeys. It has made my and Mr.A communication better!!! I could see it! and we have look at perspectives better too.

Promoting! SUCHI SUCCESS for the WIN!!!!

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Unexplained Emotions

It has been a rollercoaster ride lately..Eversince the wedding is nearing, i have been battling inner feelings which is hard to explain.

I do feel sad that I am leaving my bedroom into a new bedroom(my husband’s)..I will definitely miss being without the bras and whats not at home..Trust me all girls feel liberated without the bra thingy…
I get tired lately overthinking and missing plenty of people….till i cry myself to sleep..yes that’s how much I miss certain peeps in my life…

I have a love hate relationship with my parents especially NOW! that my mom wants this and that for the wedding as if she is the one that is going to nikah! Pffffft! but i will definitely miss her cookings…

I’m getting very emotional as maybe because I seriously have no room to breathe lately…it’s been packed packed weeks….WORK is piling up causing this packed packed weekdays…I can’t wait for my almost a month of break from work and just to sleep in actually away from people for once…that’s after the wedding of coz…NOT that i hate my job i love it but i feel like it is just getting busier…i can feeeel it…and i have comments from my friends i have been extremely busy..

Mr. A nak ajak makan no time ALSO..yes that is how busy I am…how sad this sounds but I seriously need my alone time from people..Maybe I am experiencing burnt out moments since i have not taken any holidays since last year….

If only…if only………..

~Ho***YMoooon Booked!!!~

A few weeks ago, after confirming with Mr. A regarding the destination, i have finally sourced out deals and book our accommodation!

DESTINATION: #ZOOMJAPAN

It is gonna be winter and I so couldn’t wait for it I super loveee the clean cold air during Winter.

6 Days 5 nights of Sushi,Sashimi,onigiri, seaweeds,tamago!! tako yaki! and MORE!!
I don’t think its snowing then but the temperature is just nice to walk around and have fun!
Finally this time round, i can take a chill break in Japan and not on a work trip..That means I am able to DisneyLand yo!

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Da settle honeymoonku! Yippeeeee…I prefer free and easy and I never did fancy travel packages so I had my own itinerary plus flight and accommodation all by myself…

I love that feeling and excitement of doing myself and superbly PURE satisfaction after I had the best deals and such….

Accommodation was done via AIRBnb, booked a 1 room studio aprtment of a Taiwanese guy whom stayed there…super friendly dude..and loveees his super cute house!307872ef_original1ac62c5d_original

I cant wait to hug you Japaaaan!!! Wooohooo

 

P.S. Check out this blog for more updates, I’m hearing a Photography DISCOUNT coming up!!!

The History Making Venue + Tok Kadi

I am literally neear the Wedding Date..mak de kau danak 4 bulan la …
Jantung berdegup every single day which is stressing my small heart..I Is Kenut handle this nerve wrecking moment..

Dala this year bulan puasa zoom by..Raya is not even a celebration! Aper nieeeee! Next year pay back time I TELL YOU! But anyhows, I have selected and rented my History Making MOment di Masjid An-nur in Marsiling. It is just beside the Majlis Reception venue, Marsiling CC so I am happy with it.

Masjid An-Nur Solemnisation Hall:
1.5 hours for SGD 200
AV included
(the rest korang sediakan la eh! kalau dulang hantaran dia sediakan KAN bagus!)

Tok Kadi jugak sudah saya bereskan! I have waited patiently for the clock to strike midnight on 23 July to register our ROMM…super exciteds!! Beforehand of course, we have prepared the following
1) Witness IC details x2 (any male witness whom knows the couple)
2) Wali IC details x1 (father, brother, sedara lelaki belah bapa)
3) Couple’s IC details x2
4) Address of solemnisation
5) Mahar amount/benefits
6) Hantaran amount

Yes! I have selected Naib Kadi Mohammed Suhaimi as requested by Mr.A. He has 3 choices so Naib kadi Mohammed Suhaimi is his second choice.AMIN! when ROMM was completed i felt the jitters even more…ya allah! betol la ni nak kahwin….

Sooooo surreal the feeeling i tell you!! I have yet to complete the following;
1) Dulang gifts (sesungguh nye i super malas gal, tak demand or request for anything!)
2) DIY dulang materials
3) Kadlawo appointment to finalise cards
4) Sending and customizing my cake cutting gown/dress and baju nikah
5) Wedding rings

Will blog next what else i have completed so far…till i have more brainjuice to squeeze! Semenjak BTBs nie da form i have become lazier eh!